Friday, October 21, 2011

Looking Back and Looking Forward: Big Changes

The drought is over! Last week I was offered and accepted a job. Who knows how many jobs I applied to, easily in the hundreds, and the several interviews, probably 20+, that I had, but it has all paid off. This Monday, I help decrease the unemployed population by one! It is a significant pay cut, but it is a job that will be a great experience and uses and builds off of what I have already been doing. Plus I will get to learn more about solar power and how it all works. I will be a Buyer for a company called Teyma USA. Their offices are in Victorville. They are helping build a $1.2 billion solar field in Mojave. When I interviewed for the job, the purchasing department had 3 or 4 people in it. I was told that when it was filled, there would be 10 to 12 people, so I'm getting in kind of early. I also know that there are two others that started this past week. It will be an interesting start too. I received an e-mail today saying that I have a hotel reservation for Sunday night at a hotel where I will have training all day Monday. Where is the hotel? Costa Mesa: about 1/3 of the distance to Victorville. The sad thing is it will probably take me as long to get home Monday from Costa Mesa as it will from Victorville.

Looking back at this unemployment journey, it has been a very long road. Only by God's blessings have we been able to make it as long as we have. I never pictured myself being unemployed for a year when I was let go last October from Chevron. As I mentioned, I applied to a ton of jobs. I was fortunate to get a number of interviews too. There were three companies I actually had multiple interviews with: Kaiser Permanente, Southern California Gas Company and Hawaiian Airlines. The rejects of the first two of those were disappointing, but the rejection from Hawaiian really hurt. When I was told why I was not chosen to move on, there were three reasons given, two of which were based on assumptions made by the interviewer, which were false assumptions. (The third one was legit.) That really upset me and changed my attitude somewhat for a while back around June. There were also many other companies I interviewed with a single time and was ultimately rejected from, including my dream employer Disney. Although I got rejected by Disney, I am glad that I was at least given a chance to interview. Now I can eliminate the "What if they just gave me a chance to interview?" question. So with all the experiences from my year plus of unemployment, I have a new chapter of my life complete. It just adds to my personal testimony of faith in God. Looking forward, there will be some big changes, which I'm sure will add more to that.

Since the job is located in Victorville, some 73 miles from home, it is not ideal, long-term, to commute daily. For the short-term it will be fine. So starting Tuesday, my first day in V-ville, I will do the nearly 150-mile round trip drive daily. One thing in my favor is that I will be going against traffic (headed to L.A.) The two times I have been to Victorville, for the interview and house hunting, it has taken about one hour and 15 minutes each direction each time. I can live with that. It's really not to different from the time spent driving between home in Whittier and my previous jobs in Irvine and El Segundo.

However, the biggest change that will occur as a result of this job, is the family and I will be moving to Victorville. The last time Traci and I moved was 10 years ago when we moved into this house, had been married for just 2 years and had no kids. In the last 10 years, we have accumulated a number of things, including our two kids. Well, maybe we didn't exactly "accumulate" them, but you know what I mean. As I mentioned above, we (Traci and I) have gone house hunting once so far. We saw four houses and liked two of them. On the 30th, we, this time all four of us, will head back out there for some more house hunting.

With me being a nerd, I have done my share of analysis over the last week or two. Lately this has focused on the school districts out there. This has also helped us to nail down the city we would like to live in. There really are three cities that would be fine to live in logistically: Victorville, Apple Valley and Hesperia. After looking at the three school districts, here is what my analysis has shown us, and why we have chosen Victorville as our city of choice. Apple Valley has generally good schools, and not so great homes (for rent). Victorville has a mix of schools and some great homes. Hesperia has some great homes, but the schools are generally not that good. So with Victorville's mix of schools and good housing options, we are planning to move there. Also a plus for Victor Elementary School District, is you can enroll in any school in the district, about half of which are charter school and generally perform very well, regardless of where in V-ville you live. So, like many people, you can tell us the schools in Victorville are not good, but based on my research, it depends on what school you are looking at.

Back to the houses in Victorville that we have seen. The first one we liked was 4br, 3ba, 2334 sq ft with a very open floor plan one-story house. The second one we really liked, we would have tried to lock up instantly if we were at that point. It was 4br, 3ba, 2788 sq ft two-story house with an upstairs bonus room that was at least the size of our kitchen and living room combined. (I tried to claim it as a man-cave, but Traci wasn't too keen on that idea...I can't figure out why.) We have another appointment to meet with my friend from high school, who is a realtor out there, a week from Sunday. It actually works out really well because not only will we be taking the girls with us this time, but our realtors (at home) are holding an open house at our home that day. Just in case any of are looking, or know someone who is looking, to buy a house, here is the link to our listing and here is a virtual tour of our house.

On the flip side, it has been some experience putting our house up for sale. It was something we never wanted to do, but here we are with the sign in the front yard, the lockbox on our front door and the fliers ready for prospective buyers on our coffee table. I happened to be mowing the lawn when they guy came by and put up the stake-thing for the sign. It felt like a little piece of me had been taken away. Then later that day when I returned home, the realtors' sign was up and that took a little more of me away. It is sad to be going through this, but I am trying to set my mind as right as possible. I know that home ownership is the "American Dream", but ultimately, it seems as though we are living out God's dream for us, and that is what comforts me somewhat. Although we won't own a home anymore (believe me, we've looked at our options and this is the best one), we will still have a home to live in out in Victorville and for that we should be grateful since there are millions (if not billions) of people worldwide who would kill themselves to live in something the size of our bedroom, or smaller. Our home has been a bog part of our lives for 10 years now, and it's the only home Courtney and Skyler have known, but in the end, it really is just a temporary home anyway. God has prepared a permanent residence for all 4 of us in Heaven. So anything we have on Earth is nothing compared to what we have with Him.

I have to admit the one thing I was really hoping not to do was have the girls change schools mid-year, but that is the path we are headed down. On the bright side, they are both very friendly and make new friends pretty easily. I have a feeling that will come in handy with the move, at least I sure hope so. Which school they will go to...well, that's something we're still working on. Plus whatever school we choose, we need to make sure they actually have openings for the girls.

So back to work I go on Monday. I haven't been this excited to work in a long time, if ever! Traci will have to adjust to me being gone every day again. I will have to readjust to not seeing my family as much as I'm used to. We will all have to adjust to the changes associated with moving (around the holidays, no less). Fortunately, we are a strong family with strong faith in Christ. He will ultimately get us through this transition, and who knows what he has planned for us out there. And besides, I'm sure it will be the adventure of a lifetime for our family. Here we go!